如果發生了關係，
我們的關係會有什麼樣的變化？
這個社會，
出現了一個名詞，
叫做ONS = One Night Stand，
據說翻譯過來叫做一夜情，
姑且不去討論是對或錯，
但是真的發生一夜後，
就只有一夜嗎！？
還是這兩人，會有怎樣的感情變化？
對於某些人來說，
不管這兩人是曖昧的兩人，
或是陌生人，
都有可能因為一夜，
而有更多夜，兩人就變成情人，
開始互相了解，互相認識，
這個開始，可能有個幸福的結尾，
也可能是個悲劇；
而對於另一種人來說，
這樣的關係也可以是很純粹，
對於他們來說，
無論這兩人是否認識彼此，
一夜就是一夜，
也不再有其他關係，
當然可能還有下一夜，
但是關係卻不會改變，
因為這可能只是一個禮物，
一個美好的回憶。
曾經有人說，
「女人的愛情，
會因為肉體關係建立，而更加的離不開。」
是對!! 也是錯!!
因為感情可能會更加濃厚，
但未必就會使得兩人成為男女朋友的關係，
因為要成為男女朋友，其實有更多的變數。
親密關係，
可以只是一種需求或是基本感覺的延伸，
好的親密關係，可以加深感情，
但未必能因此延續或結合，
一段親密關係，
更不代表著一對戀人關係的誕生，
所以..
愛情世界中的傻子們，
不要以為有了關係，
就會有了男女朋友之間的關係，
也未必有了關係，
那樣的感情就會建構。
The Heart Of The Matter
India Arie
I got the call today, I didn't wanna hear
But I knew that it would come
An old true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone
She said you found someone
And I thought of all the bad luck,
And all the struggles we went through
How I lost me and you lost you
What are these voices outside love's open door
Make us throw off our contentment
And beg for something more?
I've been learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning them again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore
These times are so uncertain
There's a yearning undefined
And people filled with rage
We all need a little tenderness
How can love survive in such a graceless age
And the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness
They're the very things we kill, I guess
Pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms
And the work they put between us,
You know it doesn't keep us warm
I've been trying to live without you now
But I miss you, baby
The more I know, the less I understand
And all the things I thought I figured out, I have to learn again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my heart is so shattered
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore
All the people in your life who've come and gone
They let you down, you know they hurt your pride
Better put it all behind you; cause life goes on
You keep carrin' that anger, it'll eat you up inside
I wanna be happily everafter
And my heart is so shattered
But I know it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
Because the flesh will get weak
And the ashes will scatter
So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if you don't love me anymore
Even if you don't love me anymore
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