人們說:「期望越大,失望越大。」
當你越重視一件事情,
那樣的念力,
會帶領著你,
有種非贏不可,
全心全意的戰鬥力,
但這樣的全心在乎,
卻也因為太過在乎,
而容易有很大的失落感,
在得與失之間,
出現了一個很大的隔閡..
談感情的人,
最會想太多,
對方電話沒接到,
就開始想.."他是不是不喜歡我",
對方有事情約不出去,
就開始想.."他是不是不想跟我出去",
接著就開始得失心太重,
每次的邀約失敗,
就開始鬱悶,
電話講得不愉快、不順遂,
就開始感到自責,
惹得對方稍微的不開心,
或是讓對方小小的失望,
就感到罪惡感,
到底有沒有這麼嚴重,
有沒有需要如此嚴重的得失心,
其實真的不該太在意,
也不該看得太重,
人生路上有太多的事情,
需要去面對,
等待去解決,
假如每件事情都看得那麼重,
只會讓自己感到沉重...
輕鬆看待每件事情,
但是全力以赴,
不要想太多,
但是都很重視,
這樣或許才是現代人,
在不得到憂鬱症,
很重要的方式與方法。
這首歌是主唱Bono寫給老婆的道歉歌,大推!!
Sweetest Thing
U2
My love she throws me like a rubber ball
Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing
She won't catch me or break my fall
Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing
Baby's got blue skies up ahead
But in this I'm a rain cloud
You know she likes a dry kind of love
Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing
I'm losing you
Hey hey hey, I'm losing you yeah
Ain't love the sweetest thing
I wanted to run but she made me crawl
Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing
Eternal fire, she turned me to straw
Oh oh, the sweetest thing
You know I got black eyes
But they burn so brightly for her
Mine is a blind kind of love
Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing
I'm losing you
Oh oh oh, I'm losing you yeah
Ain't love the sweetest thing
Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing
Oh oh, yeah
Blue-eyed boy meets a brown-eyed girl
Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing
You can sew it up but you still see the tear
Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing
Baby's got blue skies up ahead
And in this I'm a rain cloud
You know we got a stormy kind of love
Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing
Oh oh, the sweetest thing
Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing
Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing
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