『 我想..我們不適合!! 』
  「我需要點時間,想想看,我們適合不適合!?」



每個人都希望找到適合的人,
常常我們也用適合不適合,
來評斷交往的對象,是否該繼續下去?
或者是否該有那個開始..

但究竟..
怎樣的人才是真正的適合自己?
這是一個值得探究的問題。

或許,
我們可以先想想..
自己是個什麼樣的人?
想要什麼樣的戀人?
想談什麼樣的愛情?
接著
再開始討論適合問題,也才顯得相對客觀。

弔詭的是..客觀,
卻又未必代表著感情順遂,
因為妳覺得適合,
卻又未必是真正適合自己,
妳覺得適合,
也可能有誤判自己適合哪種人的情形?
也可能妳覺得適合,
但其實對方根本不是妳想的那種人...
當然,
也可能反過來,
妳覺得不適合,卻是誤判,
此人其實異常的適合...

但更有趣的是,
適合的人,不代表就能跟妳談個幸福的感情,
或是給妳美滿的婚姻,

相對的,
有時候正是不適合的人,
才相對有趣,因此
有著妳意想不到的樂趣與穩定的感情。



所以究竟適合?還是不適合?
那是個值得思考得問題,
但卻未必跟感情順遂有關..........
適合就是幸福嗎?







下面是首老歌,但卻很輕快,
喜歡old fashon song的人,
一定不可錯過。





Got My Mind Set On You
George Harrison


I got my mind set on you
I got my mind set on you
I got my mind set on you
I got my mind set on you

But it's gonna take money
A whole lotta spending money
It's gonne take plenty of money
To do it right child

It's gonna take time
A whole lot of precious time
It's gonna take patience and time, ummm
To do it, to do it, to do it, to do it, to do it,
To do it right child

I got my mind set on you
I got my mind set on you
I got my mind set on you
I got my mind set on you

And this time i know it's for real
The feelings that i feel
I know if i put my mind to it
I know that i really can do it

I got my mind set on you
Set on you
I got my mind set on you
Set on you

But it's gonna take money
A whole lotta spending money
It's gonna take plenty of money
To do it right child

It's gonna take time
A whole lot of precious time
It's gonna take patience and time, ummm
To do it, to do it, to do it, to do it, to do it,
To do it right child

I got my mind set on you
I got my mind set on you
I got my mind set on you
I got my mind set on you

And this time i know it's for real
The feelings that i feel
I know if i put my mind to it
I know that i really can do it

But it's gonna take money
A whole lotta spending money
It's gonna take plenty of money
To do it right child

It's gonna take time
A whole lot of precious time
It's gonna take patience and time, ummm
To do it, to do it, to do it, to do it, to do it,
To do it right

Set on you
Set on you








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