自律神經失調，可以找醫生；那愛情自律神經失調，又該怎麼處理呢??!!
以下是一段...日常生活中，常常有的對話：
「我的朋友又失戀了，我昨天花了整個晚上的時間開導她。」
『是唷!!是唷!! 怎麼啦??』
「其實也沒怎麼樣啦?! 只是我朋友總是不懂得怎麼做?!
平常其實她才是我的愛情導師，這次不知道怎麼了？竟然亂了分寸....」
這段看似平常不過的內容，
卻是清楚的點明了今天討論的主題，
愛情自律神經失調 症候群
『旁觀者清，當局者迷。』
這句從小到大常常聽到的句子，
幾乎每個人都能了解其內涵，
但了解這句話的每個人，卻少有人能逃出這樣的泥沼。
感情，是每個人生活中，幾乎不可或缺的一部份，
而身為死黨好友的我們，常常也就這樣，
陪伴著朋友們，討論著愛情中每個故事，
也常常就這樣成為了愛情導師，
作為他們感情問題的寄託與指引。
每次當我們把問題分析的透徹之時，
每次當我們將感情問題，
套上心理學、社會學、傳播學、談判學等各類社會科學時，
我們都好似愛情中的大師，為人分析解惑，
甚至我們還難扮演著作家的角色，寫著一堆堆自以為的兩性感情文章與攻略，
但偏偏，
在談感情中的男男女女，
常常都成了『旁觀者清，當局者迷。』中的"迷"糊蛋，
講別人的感情，講的滿口道理，
自己遇到了，就患了 " 愛情自律神經失調症候群 "，
突然亂了分寸，不知道自己做了什麼？！
也不知道該怎麼應對，
但親愛的讀者朋友們，我可愛的親朋好友們，
請你不要太過於擔心，
遇到這種比 " 自律神經失調 " 還好處理的症狀，
只要立即跟你任何一位，曾經談過戀愛的好友聯絡，
很快的...
無論你失戀，還是暗戀，又或者是瘦到欺負，或是吵架，或是欺負人，
我想...你的問題，將會很快受到控制。
送上一首由Phoenix 演唱的歌曲，
是描述一個失控的失戀人，
或許這個人，也得到了 " 愛情自律神經失調症候群 "，
所以就送上這首好聽的歌曲，
讓我們一同弔念，我們在感情上遇到的挫折。
If I ever feel better
Phoenix
They say an end can be a start
Feels like I've been buried yet I'm still alive
It's like a bad day that never ends
I feel the chaos around me
A thing I don't try to deny
I'd better learn to accept that
There are things in my life that I can't control
They say love ain't nothing but a sore
I don't even know what love is
Too many tears have had to fall
Don't you know I'm so tired of it all
I have known terror dizzy spells
Finding out the secrets words won't tell
Whatever it is it can't be named
There's a part of my world that' s fading away
You know I don't want to be clever
To be brilliant or superior
True like ice, true like fire
Now I know that a breeze can blow me away
Now I know there's much more dignity
In defeat than in the brightest victory
I'm losing my balance on the tight rope
Tell me please, tell me please, tell me please...
If I ever feel better
Remind me to spend some good time with you
You can give me your number
When it's all over I'll let you know
Hang on to the good days
I can lean on my friends
They help me going through hard times
But I'm feeding the enemy
I'm in league with the foe
Blame me for what's happening
I can't try, I can't try, I can't try...
No one knows the hard times I went through
If happiness came I miss the call
The stormy days ain't over
I've tried and lost know I think that I pay the cost
Now I've watched all my castles fall
They were made of dust, after all
Someday all this mess will make me laugh
I can't ewait, I can't wait, I can't wait...
It's like somebody took my place
I ain't even playing my own game
The rules have changed well I didn't know
There are things in my life I can't control
I feel the chaos around me
A thing I don't try to deny
I'd better learn to accept that
There's a part of my life that will go away
Dark is the night, cold is the ground
In the circular solitude of my heart
As one who strives a hill to climb
I am sure I'll come through I don't know how
They say an end can be a start
Feels like I've been buried yet I'm still alive
I'm losing my balance on the tight rope
Tell me please, tell me please, tell me please...
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