結婚,除了要有衝動跟時機,還要有好對象。


妳有朋友結婚了嗎?
參加過自己朋友的婚禮了嗎?

還記得幾年前,
第一次參加自己朋友的婚禮,
有些高興,也有些緊張,
畢竟是第一次自己參加婚禮,
深怕自己做錯了某些關於婚禮的習俗。

看著步入禮堂的朋友,
感覺到他們兩人的幸福,
也有著奇妙的感覺,
畢竟當兩個你原本認識的人,
突然的成了一對,
也慢慢的結為連理,
很好奇他們有多麼深厚的感情,
以及多麼大的意志,而決定要一起走下去,

想想看,如果有個男人或女人,
妳將看著他超過50年,
不知道有天會不會看膩,
或是某天早上醒來,卻嚇到旁邊怎麼躺著跟昨天同樣的人,

那樣的感覺,
那樣的生活,
似乎還是需要點調適,
更重要的,還要找到一個人,妳願意為了他,
放棄整個森林,而且還要忍受看50年不會膩的困擾。


 結婚,除了要有衝動跟時機,還要有好對象。

這三個元素,是結婚方程式的重要三角。

身邊常常有朋友,交往多年後,
雖然逐漸步入適婚年齡,
反而卻覺得彼此似乎沒有"以後"了,
因為沒有那種衝動,讓他們願意在一起..
更慘的是,有時候只有一方,
還抱著未來要結婚的夢。

記得之前跟大家分享過一篇文章,文章中提到..
『每個男人都有自己夢想中的新娘,每位女人都有理想中的新郎。 
唯一差別,在於男人要找的是夢想,是自己設定好條件的小新娘,
 女人要找的是理想,對的人出現在對的時間即可。』


當我們在我們自己預設的年紀,
或是普世認為應該結婚的年紀,
遇到了一個還算不差的人,
結婚,自然就變成理所當然的答案,

雖然我們不確定,對方是否就是那個人,
但衝動,會帶我們到那個情境裡。

相對的,在這結婚方程式中,
如果只有衝動跟時機, 而沒有好對象,
也自然不可能有所發展。
 


就像之前所說, 
結婚可以說是本世紀最難的事情之一, 
想要結婚的姐妹兄弟們, 
大家加油, 但切記!! 

不要為了想結婚而結, 
找到一個不是跟你一樣想結婚的人, 
或是一個不夠喜歡,有天會看膩的人, 
或者是不適合的人, 

這樣...你絕對會後悔一輩子的。
 









You Know Me
2 Pistols feat. Ray J



Ooooh Ooooh, Ooooh Ooooh
Ooooh Ooooh, Ooooh Ooooh

[2 Pistols & Ray J]
Somethin serious... Shorty you know wat it is

[Ray J]
I know you shorty, 
you know me and you know I can't leave these streets, 
cause I mean it's in my veins shorty wish I could stay but for now just pray for me.
I know you shorty, 
you know me so hard for me to leave these blocks 
got my head tied in a knot always runnin from the cops prayin that I don't get caught.

[2 Pistols]
You know I push it to the limit sun up, sun down, baby I got to get it, gotta get it... I gotta get it

Baby girl, you know my situation. 
I know sometime you get impatient. 
I be on tha grind. You be at tha house, 
probably think I'm at another broad house. 
Shorty I'm gettin money more than I've ever seen. 
True Religion jeans, I know you like those. That's why I buy'em for ya
Smile for me. You can't believe them hatin B**ches, they be lyin on me. 
Keep a nine on me, you know they plottin on me, 
you just keep that pu**y tight. I'm comin home early. 
I gotta get it, get it. I can't leave the streets. I did'nt choose tha hustle, tha hustle chose me.

[Ray J]
I know you shorty, you know me and you know I can't leave these streets, 
cause I mean it's in my veins shorty wish I could stay but for now just pray for me.
I know you shorty, you know me, 
so hard for me to leave these blocks got my head tied in a knot 
always runnin from the cops prayin that I don't get caught.

[2 Pistols]
You know I push it to the limit sun up, sun down, baby I got to get it, gotta get it... I gotta get it

[Ray J] 
Pray for me pray for me

Streets keep callin, the block keep on watchin. 
You're my shorty, hope'n you stay down be with me win or lose. 
Girl my heart is always with you, don't get confused. 
Just hold me down, I promise that we'll make it through.

[2 Pistols]
I'm gettin money 24/7 life as a hustler, 
they wanna throw away the key and lock a ni**a up, 
I remember when they put me in handcuffs.
 I look you in tha eye "Shawty what u cryin for? " I'll be out in the morning, 
baby post bail. Get your hair done cause I'm comin straight over there.
 I trust her with tha money, shorty so real. I put them diamonds on her,
Just to show I care. You stuck with a ni**a, in and out of jail. 
I know you love me baby, I put you through hell.
I gotta get it, get it. I can't leave the streets. I did'nt choose tha hustle, tha hustle chose me

[Ray J]
I know you shorty, you know me and you know I can't leave these streets, 
cause I mean it's in my veins shorty wish I could stay but for now just pray for me.
I know you shorty, you know me, 
so hard for me to leave these blocks
 got my head tied in a knot always runnin from the cops prayin that I don't get knocked.

[2 Pistols]
You know I push it to the limit sun up, sun down, baby I got to get it, gotta get it... I gotta get it










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