情人之間,相處久了,
總是會看起來越來越像,
感覺變成在照鏡子般的相像,
習慣相同,興趣相當,
穿著也很類似,
久了之後,
兩人也從情人開始有了“家人化”的現象,
因此在相處與互動上,
甚至在講話與溝通裡中,
也開始越來越直接,
自動省略了選字的功能,
這往往是情人相處的常態,
不像在追求時,
那樣的刻意與小心,
也不像在剛交往時,
那樣的羞澀與含蓄,
當彼此越來越直接了,
是好是壞?!就見仁見智了..
但有趣的部分,也就在此了,
常常幾個字眼,
可能就代表著不同意義,
情人相處久了,
有時候,
因為有了默契,
就算簡略對話的內容,
仍然能清楚彼此要傳達的意念,
也不用多說什麼,
有時,就算所指非言,
也會因為默契,
而清楚知道是在指什麼事情?
彼此在談論什麼樣的話題,
但問題也在這邊產生,
因為太過簡略“用字”,
甚至省去“選字”功能,
反而可能無意中傷害了彼此,
但又因為感情的深厚,
或是羞於表達,少了溝通,
產生更多的問題,
當然除了交往久了,
自動省略“用字”與“選字”的狀況,
還有因為男人自以為的面子,
或是懶得解釋的方便性,
而產生相類似的情形,
也無形中傷害了情人的心,
吃了悶虧,
不管交往多久,
就算老夫老妻,
有些簡單了禮貌與眉角,
仍然要注意,
縱使你知道對方為什麼為這麼說或這麼做,
縱使你並不在意,
但是只要一點點讓你心有揪了一下,
有一點點不愉快的情緒,
還是找個機會,
跟你的情人溝通一下,
不要讓傷害擴大,
或是成為殘留在心中的一點點陰影。
REHAB
Rihanna feat. Justin Timberlake
Baby, baby
When we first met
I never felt something so strong
You were like my lover
And my best friend
All wrapped into one
With a ribbon on it
And all of a sudden
When you left
I didn't know how to follow
It's like a shot
That spun me around
And now my heart left
I feel so empty and hollow
And I'll never give myself to another
The way I gave it to you
Don't even recognize
The ways you hit me
Do you?
It's gonna take a miracle to bring me back
And you're the one to blame
And now I feel like, oh
You're the reason
Why I'm thinking
I don't wanna smoke all
These cigarettes no more
I guess this is what I get
For wishful thinking
Should've never let you into my door
Next time you wanna go on and leave
I should just let you go on and do it
It's not usual like how I'll leave
It's like I checked into rehab
Baby you're my disease
It's like I checked into rehab
Baby you're my disease
I gotta check into rehab
'Cause baby you're my disease
I gotta check into rehab
'Cause baby you're my disease
Damn,
Ain't it crazy
When your love slams?
You'll do anything
For the one you love
'Cause anytime
That you needed me
I'd be there
It's like
You were my favorite drug
The only problem is
That you was using me
In a different way
That I was using you
But now that I know
That it's not meant to be
You gotta go
I gotta win myself over you
And I'll never give myself to another the way I gave it to you
You don't even recognize the ways you hurt me, do you?
It's gonna take a miracle to bring me back
And you're the one to blame
'Cause now I feel like....oh!
You're the reason why I'm thinking
I don't wanna smoke on these cigarettes no more
I guess that's what I get for wishful thinking
Should've never let you enter my door
Next time you wanna go on and leave
I should just let you go on and do it
'Cause now I'm using like I bleed
It's like I checked into rehab
And baby, you're my disease
It's like I checked into rehab
And baby, you're my disease
I gotta check into rehab
'Cause baby you're my disease
I gotta check into rehab
'Cause baby you're my disease
Now ladies gimme that...
Oh, oh, oh, oh, ohohoh, oh, oh, ohh
Now gimme that...
Oh, oh, oh, oh, ohohoh, oh, oh, ohh
My ladies gimme that...
Oh, oh, oh, oh, ohohoh, oh, oh, ohh
Now gimme that...
Oh, oh, oh, oh, ohohoh, oh, oh, ohh
Oh! You're the reason why I'm thinking
I don't wanna smoke on these cigarettes no more
I guess that's what I get for wishful thinking
Should've never let you enter my door
Next time you wanna go on and leave
I should just let you go on and do it
'Cause now I'm using like I bleed
It's like I checked into rehab
And baby, you're my disease
It's like I checked into rehab
And baby, you're my disease
I gotta check into rehab
'Cause baby you're my disease
I gotta check into rehab
'Cause baby you're my dïsease
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