優先選擇聽什麼？ 陳宥亘 FrANKC

可見兩者，
或許有一種相關性，
可能是正相關，
也可能是負相關，
我們未必真正知道答案，
但可以確定的是，
兩者間必定有某種關聯，

我想，
距離與拒絕，只差一個字，
兩者既是正相關，
也是負相關，
因為，
若是正相關，
兩人的距離越遠時，
拒絕的機會就越大，
反之亦然；
而假若是負相關，
則兩個人的距離越遠，
距離的機會就越小，
反過來也是如此，

交往的情人，
可能因為距離越遠，
疏離了彼此，
也引發了拒絕的出現；
追求理想中的對象，
交集與交流很重要，
但因為距離，
也很容易造成你的追求失敗，
而慘遭拒絕，
這是正相關。

而負相關，
距離越遠，
造成兩人可能接觸機會少，
交流與交集少，
所以自然不太有機會被拒絕，
因為也很少機會開始，
無論是開始交往，
或者是感情開始，
因為你們太有距離...

縱使這個時代，
已經有了網路、有了電話、有了視訊，
可以拉近分隔兩地兩人的距離，
但我想，
這裡提的是心的距離，
進而延伸出來的地理距離，
畢竟實體的距離再近，
心的距離還是遙遠於實體距離，
但實體的距離，也常常牽制了心的距離，
所以，
距離仍然是最大問題，
而距離與拒絕，真的只差一個字。





All Along The Watchtower
U2 

"There must be some way out of here,"
Said the joker to the thief.
"There's too much confusion here,
I can't get no relief.
Businessmen they drink my wine
Plowmen dig my earth
None of them know along the line
What any of this is worth"
Yeah...
"No reason to get excited,"
The thief, he kindly spoke.
"There are many here among us
Who think that life is but a joke
But you and I, we've been through that
And that is not our fate
So let us not talk falsely now
Because the hour is getting late."

All along the watchtower
Princes kept the view
While horsemen came and went
Barefoot servants too

All I got is a red guitar
Three chords
And the truth
All I got is a red guitar
The rest is up to you

"There's no reason to get excited,"
The thief, he kindly spoke.
"There are some among us here
Say that life is just a joke
You and I, we've been through that
And that is not our fate (at least today)
So let us not talk falsely now
Because the hour is getting late"








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